Do you suddenly find your heart is a flutter when you’re around your flatmate? 😬
You have finally found someone you can live with as a flatmate and all is well between the two of you. However, you find that things have gone beyond you just being flatmates when you find yourself thinking more and more about him/her. In your conversation with others, you find yourself constantly bringing them up. It’s not entirely bad if you are feeling this way about your flatmate. You may just be having them in your thoughts without being in love. Being romantically involved with your flatmate may complicate things, but it’s worth every effort you give to either pursue it or avoid it.
You wonder if your thoughts of them are a result of being grateful for finally having a flatmate that you can cohabit with peacefully. A flatmate and a good friend that you can confide in at all times. However, you also wonder if you should take a step back from them. Not to detach yourself completely from your flatmate, but it might be a good idea to take a moment to think about why you are feeling this way.
There may be a number of reasons why you suddenly find yourself having romantic feelings towards your flatmate. And it’s possible they may be feeling the same way about you. There are always things that make flatmates attractive; you may share the same interest, values, and philosophy about life. Maybe they have been there for you emotionally and physically is the reason for the attraction. This is normal and to be expected.
There’s also another angle to becoming romantic with your flatmate. You find them kind and friendly, creating the need to move closer and get to know them better. Whatever it is that you feel towards your flatmate, never ignore it, you are bound to lose them if you do.
Good luck exploring your new journey with your flatmate.
